Welcome back readers. Today's blog post was really fun to write, so let's get into it.
If you know me, you'll know that I'm single at least 75% of the time so trust me when I say I know the struggles that come with being single. However, being single doesn't have to be a sad, depressing thing, there are some amazing perks that come with it.
1) Never having to say who you're with. In other words, you don't have to answer to anyone. You can go out with girls, and guy friends, and not have to report to anyone. I know some relationships are all about trust, but not every guy is comfortable with their girl around men if they aren't there also. When you're single you get to go out, kick it with whoever you want and you don't have to answer to anyone.
2) You can flirt and not feel guilty! Even if you're just gushing over some random guy on the street, you can do so freely without guilt. Let's also talk about guys who are bold enough to approach you, you don't have to feel bad about innocent conversations that your man may not see as "innocent". Being single gives you the freedom to flirt or get hit on by guys without feeling bad about it.
3) You get to explore your options freely. Go on dates, have casuals conversations and discover what you want or don't want in a guy. Thanks to some of the guys I dated, I know what I'm looking for in a guy and what I should avoid. Keep this as casual and innocent as possible, (we're trying to enjoy being single, not find ourselves in a relationship).
4) Making decisions is made much simpler. I remember not talking to an ex for a few hours simply because he didn't want to go where I wanted to eat and vice versa. To be fair, I can be very indecisive, so I'll take the fault for that; but being single makes decisions such as where to eat much easier. You don't have to be cautious or think about your significant other's wishes or views. Yes, being single allows you to be totally selfish without feeling terrible about it.
5) Time to focus on you! There's nothing better than a glow up after a breakup. Being single gives you time to work on you and focus on yourself. There's so many pros to taking time out for yourself, including making yourself better emotionally and physically. You get a chance to discover yourself; what you should improve or what you should work on getting rid of.
Enjoy your singleness until you find someone worth giving it up for.
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-xox
Michel'Lee Williams
